LAUNCHING OLDER ADOLESCENTS INTO ADULTHOOD

Adults

Nobody prepared you for this part.

You raised them. You poured everything you had into them. And now they’re supposed to be adults and you’re not quite sure what your role is anymore. Too much involvement feels like overstepping. Too little feels like abandonment. And somewhere in the middle you’re trying to hold onto the relationship while still helping them become who they need to be.

Parenting adult children is one of the most complex seasons of parenting. What is an adult? The official age defined by society is 18. The legal drinking age is 21 in many states. But the reality is that adults are people who can responsibly handle themselves independently and manage relationships with some degree of maturity.

Here are four blog posts that amplify this idea and give you specific strategies to help them.

Understanding the Three Stages of Adolescence (and How to Parent Effectively in Each One)

Dr Scott Turansky If you’ve ever parented a teenager, you know it can feel like trying to hit a moving target. One day your child seems responsible and thoughtful, and the next they’re making decisions that leave you scratching your…
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“It’s My Cell Phone, So Don’t Try to Limit Me”

Dr Scott Turansky If you’ve heard that line from your child or teen, you know how quickly a conversation about screen time can turn into a power struggle. Many parents feel stuck in those moments. On one hand, they want to give their child…
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I’m 18 now so don’t tell me what to do

Dr Scott Turansky If you’ve heard those words in your home, you’re not alone. Turning 18 often brings a shift in how teens see themselves. They feel older, more capable, and eager for independence. And that’s not a bad thing. In fact,…
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Adulthood

Does 18 Mean Adulthood?

Dr Scott Turansky If you’ve parented a teenager, you’ve probably heard it: “I’m 18 now. I’m an adult. You can’t tell me what to do.” That statement often marks the beginning of a new kind of tension in the home. Parents…
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Dr. Turansky has not only launched his own five children but has walked alongside many parents navigating these exact challenges. If you’re struggling with a specific situation with your adult child, a personal coaching conversation can give you a clear, individualized strategy for your unique circumstances. A free consultation is a great first step. Schedule a free coaching consultation.

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Adults not only take care of themselves, but they also know how to work with and help others. Few young people are ready for adulthood by 18 years of age. Parenting enters a new dimension requiring you to look for ways to launch your child.

Launching adult children seems more difficult than it used to be. In fact, the age at which children begin to live independently seems to be getting older and older. Adulthood requires a number of skills. Sometimes too much freedom can be counterproductive and releasing kids too early into adult life before they’re ready slows them down. The period we call adolescence is getting longer on both ends. Many children are entering adolescence earlier, and staying later. Many young people are not independent and on their own until their mid-twenties.