How to Teach Children Honor

How to Teach Children Honor: The Secret to Strong Family Relationships

Dr Scott Turansky Most parents spend a lot of time teaching obedience. We remind children to complete chores, follow directions, and respect family rules. These are important lessons because obedience helps families function smoothly and…
Develop Strong Biblical Convictions

How to Help Children Develop Strong Biblical Convictions

Help your child develop strong biblical convictions that guide choices, strengthen character, and build internal motivation. Discover practical ways to identify faulty beliefs behind behavior and replace them with truth that shapes the heart.
Why Struggles Are Essential for Your Child

Why Struggles Are Essential for Your Child’s Growth – The Hidden Purpose Behind Frustration, Disappointment, and Challenges

Dr Scott Turansky No parent enjoys watching their child struggle. When children are frustrated, disappointed, discouraged, or facing challenges, most parents instinctively want to help. We step in with advice, solutions, reminders, encouragement,…
Moving Beyond the Parental Prompting Trap

Moving Beyond the “Parental Prompting” Trap

Dr Scott Turansky If you've ever felt like you're repeating yourself all day long, you're not alone. Many parents feel trapped in an exhausting cycle of reminders, warnings, and prompts. They remind children to make their beds, finish…

“I’m Disappointed, But I’ll Be Okay”

Dr Scott Turansky One of the most important emotional skills a child can learn is how to handle disappointment well. Every child experiences moments when life doesn’t go the way they hoped. They don’t get what they want. Plans change.…

The Problem with Gentle Parenting

Dr Scott Turansky Gentle parenting has become one of the most talked-about parenting approaches in recent years. Many parents are drawn to it because they want to avoid harshness, anger, shame, and fear-based discipline. They want peaceful…

Why Children Struggle with Disappointment

Dr Scott Turansky One of the hardest moments in parenting comes when a child doesn’t get what he wants. Whether it’s a toddler melting down over candy at the grocery store or a teenager furious about losing video game privileges, parents…

Understanding the Three Stages of Adolescence (and How to Parent Effectively in Each One)

Dr Scott Turansky If you’ve ever parented a teenager, you know it can feel like trying to hit a moving target. One day your child seems responsible and thoughtful, and the next they’re making decisions that leave you scratching your…

“It’s My Cell Phone, So Don’t Try to Limit Me”

Dr Scott Turansky If you’ve heard that line from your child or teen, you know how quickly a conversation about screen time can turn into a power struggle. Many parents feel stuck in those moments. On one hand, they want to give their child…

I’m 18 now so don’t tell me what to do

Dr Scott Turansky If you’ve heard those words in your home, you’re not alone. Turning 18 often brings a shift in how teens see themselves. They feel older, more capable, and eager for independence. And that’s not a bad thing. In fact,…
Adulthood

Does 18 Mean Adulthood?

Dr Scott Turansky If you’ve parented a teenager, you’ve probably heard it: “I’m 18 now. I’m an adult. You can’t tell me what to do.” That statement often marks the beginning of a new kind of tension in the home. Parents…

When Your Child Won’t Listen: Looking Beyond Behavior to the Heart

Aaron had heard the instruction three times. “Go put your shoes away.” Each time, his response was the same. No response at all. He kept building with his blocks as if nothing had been said. What started as a simple request quickly…